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Running away - is there another solution? Help? =)

Wed Jul 22, 2009, 10:28 AM
So....Hmm lets treat this as Hypothetical shall we?

okay so there's this Role play site, and recently it has gained new members... Okay good you say... Well, uh... Have you ever felt AFRAID of one? Someone who is controlling and forceful?

Yup, well me and another Member are scared to really step foot on the site!!! Haha! Yup....

If you wanna know more or help out leave a comment =)


I've been doing major overtime at work - Need the money....

Dang why do I always run away from the people I need most when I'm suffering? (You will know who you are - gawd I'm weird -_-';)

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:iconblackat69:
? Are you talking about RR?

I do understand what you are saying, though I would like to know more...I'll try to help if I can.

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:iconcosmiccathorse:
Nah It's not RR, but you're right in a sense... Dur to the fact I'm struggling to reply to some stuff on there and I dunno why....

On another site there is this new girl, and she is well, forceful. She's 11 - I know I shouldn't be scared of a kid right? WRONG!!! She is constantly messaging me and the creator about her character and to reply to her posts. Her character kissed my friends charrie on the FIRST meeting and said they would be together forever practically O.o She is SCARY....

She says "Where have you been, I've been refreshing the page for 2 and a half hrs waiting on you!!"

Urk.....

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:iconchiakairotsuki:
Haha, Im a leech =D

Ugh, I can not STAND people like that!

I can understand why you're afraid of her =\ I've had that happen to me before, but I was afraid of the person myself and cuz of things Shiba told me.

You just need to tell her. Tell her. "Look, kid. I don't have the time to be on all day and night, so I'm sorry that I kept you waiting but, really. I think that you need to just calm down and slow down with your characters. If you met a guy you wouldnt kiss him and say I love you the first time we met. Just chill out and if you have a problem with people having lives, you can quit the site"

See, its not rude really, its truthfull, and it's not anger. Ut's the truth, and when you tell her the truth she'll do one of two things

a) She'll get annoyed and try blaming you for things you didnt do, and ya just gotta remember that shes only being like that cuz she knows your right

or

b) She'll admit her wrongs and try and do something differently.

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Fall In Love,
Then It Ends,
This May Be My Very Lat Heartbreak
:iconcosmiccathorse:
Great advice ^-^ and I'm so glad you're a leech =)

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Cherish your memories.... and keep your friends close to your heart
:iconchiakairotsuki:
No problem ^^

It's happened to me like twice XD You just gotta tell it to em straight!

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Fall In Love,
Then It Ends,
This May Be My Very Lat Heartbreak
:iconwildfreecareless:
*Sighs*

Clover, when are you going to stand up for yourself and speak up? Okay, I'm not the most verbal or affrontive person in the world, but still!

When something doesn't sit right with you, or you disagree with it, tell that person. Otherwise it will only stay the same! Be forthright and honest; who can fault you for that?
Silence is seen as agreement or acceptance of/in a situation.

I know what I'm talking about here, because I've experienced some things firsthand too.

In ANY given situation, you have to first speak up before you'll be heard or understood.

I thought I was a quiet and shy person, but I'm finding out on here I'm definitely not at times. ;)

Hope it gets better for you~
:hug:
=)

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:iconblackat69:
Ah, one of those.......I understand that some people really get into role playing, but there is a line that should never be crossed.

I think that you should give her a warning(if you're not an admin/mod, then ask someone that is) for the rule of three strikes and you get banned. That's what I generally do on my sites. I'm not saying that this will nessacarely work, but sometimes it's worth a shot.

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Note to self-- Don't anger people that can summon flames.
:iconcosmiccathorse:
Okay here's what I told her!
(Paragraph stolen from:iconchiakairotsuki:)Hope you dont mind
This is the REAL message I sent her btw


Hi , This is important for me to say.
This IS kind of a warning from me (Admin of Hp roleplay)

Your actions in roleplay are making some people (Including myself) feel uncomfortable.

Kaze is NOT Willow's property - You cannot (Even in stories) Walk up to a guy on the first meeting and kiss them and proclaim they will be together forever cause she has a special power to tell the future.... It's called power mongering or POWER PLAYING. It's not fair on Raven.

It is mentioned in the rules that any special ability be Confirmed and agreed by the creator. Everyone has to ask Ravencat2112 for special powers.

We don't have the time to be on all day and night, so I'm sorry that I kept you waiting but, really. I think that you need to just calm down and slow down with your characters. If you met a guy you wouldn't kiss him and say I love you the first time we met. Just chill out and if you have a problem with people having lives, you can quit the site.

Please stop messaging people to reply asap to your posts, you are not in control of any members OR the site.

~From Admin Blazekit

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Cherish your memories.... and keep your friends close to your heart
:iconcosmiccathorse:
Cheers Wildo XD *Ahem* I sent her a message it's on here incidentally - Was it okay?

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